I periodically back up my MacBook Air to an external HD (currently a Samsung T7 Shield) using Time Machine. Life's been busy, so it's been three months since I've made a back up. But Time Machine ran all night long and the little progress bar made it only, say, 5% of the way towards the end. I picked "Skip This Backup," intending to try again. I planned to eject the disk, reconnect it (making sure connections were all good), and then run Time Machine again. But Finder wouldn't let me eject it. Not wanting to scramble my HD, I decided to run a Disk Utility First Aid process on the HD before ejecting it..and that process has now been running for nearly 12 hours. Progress bar is toggling back and forth endlessly; words just say "Running First Aid on Samsung..."
HELP! Do I just need to be patient? How many hours do let it run before conceding there's a problem? Do I need to Force Quit something? How do I get out of this w/o scrambling the HD? Thanks!