The most hacked phone in the history

Phone hacked? Extremely unlikely.

1. Your Apple account hacked? Entirely possible.
2. Your router compromised? Entirely possible.
3. Reusing passwords on multiple sites? Only you would know that answer, but possible.

1. Change your account password.
2. Reset the router to its defaults. Change all passwords. Both device login and Wi-Fi.
3. Use different passwords on every site you visit.

You will need to describe what you are seeing or provide screenshots as long as they don't contain any personal information.

VPN's are hardly a security measure as your internet traffic is all being funneled to that providers servers where many of them have been breached resulting in the compromise of users data.

• https://gist.github.com/joepie91/5a9909939e6ce7d09e29
• https://overengineer.dev/blog/2019/04/08/very-precarious-narrative/

Accounts can be easily compromised through phishing links/emails where your password for that account has inadvertently been given to a scammer. Also never reuse passwords, because if someone was able to gain access to one account, that would also give them access to any other where that same password was used. That does not mean your phone has been hacked.

Recognize and avoid social engineering schemes including phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams - Apple Support

You will need to provide further details if you anticipate assistance from the users here.

If this has been happening for a significant amount of time, it may be time to get rid of all technology in your life.

To add to the list provided by Kurt below:

4.Seeing something you do not understand DOES NOT equal hacking.