My daughter traded in her broken iPhone 14 Pro Max to AT&T in exchange for credit toward a new iPhone in May 2026. The phone would not turn on, so we were unable to erase it before sending it back. We used AT&T’s prepaid shipping label and packaging, and AT&T confirmed receipt and acceptance of the trade-in.
I initiated a remote erase through Find My, but the device still shows “Erase Pending” because it has not connected to the internet.
Recently, my daughter started receiving threatening text messages from someone claiming to have purchased her old iPhone. The person says the phone still contains her personal information and threatens to sell it on the black market unless we remove it from our Apple Account. They also claim to be receiving her phone calls.
My daughter kept the same phone number when she upgraded to her new iPhone. The sender has never addressed her by name, and I cannot verify whether they actually have the old phone or whether their claims are true.
Since we returned the device directly to AT&T using its prepaid trade-in label, and AT&T confirmed that the trade-in was accepted, I am concerned about these messages and the possibility that someone has obtained information associated with the device.
My questions are:
- Could someone access my daughter’s personal data if the phone has not yet completed the remote erase?
- Is it safe to remove the old iPhone from Find My, or should we keep Activation Lock enabled until the erase is complete?
- How could someone have obtained her phone number in this situation?
- Has anyone experienced similar threatening messages after trading in an iPhone through a carrier?
I would appreciate advice from anyone familiar with Find My, remote erasing, and iPhone trade-ins. I want to protect my daughter’s information and understand how to handle these messages safely.