You are not notified when someone has reported your messages a Spam. Messages is intended for communications between friends and family where they would not be reporting you as sending Spam. If you are sending messages to others, they certainly have the option to report your communications as Spam and you can expect your account to be disabled. It is your responsibility to follow the Terms of Use for your Apple Account and the sender does not make the determination if their message is Spam, it is the recipient that received the message.
In the terms of use, that specific violation is noted here:
- post or transmit spam, including but not limited to unsolicited or unauthorized advertising, promotional materials, or informational announcements;
No notice is required by Apple:
- Apple further reserves the right to modify, suspend, or discontinue the Services (or any part or Content thereof) at any time with or without notice to you, and Apple will not be liable to you or to any third party should it exercise such rights.
- If you fail, or Apple suspects that you have failed, to comply with any of the provisions of this Agreement, Apple may, without notice to you: (i) terminate this Agreement and/or your Apple Account, and you will remain liable for all amounts due under your Apple Account up to and including the date of termination; and/or (ii) terminate your license to the software; and/or (iii) preclude your access to the Services.
- Apple has adopted a policy to disable and/or terminate in appropriate circumstances the accounts of users who are found repeatedly to infringe or are repeatedly claimed to infringe the copyrights of others. As part of implementing such policy, Apple may in its sole discretion suspend, disable and/or terminate the accounts of users who have been identified as repeatedly engaging in infringing activities or for other related reasons.
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The suspension will either be temporary or permanent depending on what Apple has determined. If it is temporary you may be allowed access to the service again and would need to contact Apple directly.
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Also, you should not be using iMessage in a Commercial/Business manner for communications. For example, a Realtor that sends out property interests to a list of users may certainly find that their account will be suspended for the violation if others are reporting those as Spam. For business use of messaging, you should be using a service that is intended for business/commercial use and that is not iMessage. Again, that Apple service is only intended for personal communications and friends and family are not reporting your messages as Spam.