Using Siri AI considers the Reminders app as being personal content that cannot be accessed without authentication.
If you have used a HomePod, the authentication is performed by Voice Recognition which is not an option on the iPhone. You have not been able to add items to your Shopping list for several prior OS versions unless it has recognized your voice. No one else can add items to your Shopping list or access anything in the Reminders app, unless that person has been added as a user where they can only add items to their own Shopping list after recognizing their voice.
With the newly released Home View device that uses Siri AI and also allows multiple users, each person can access their own Shopping List, but not others. The authentication uses a combination of Facial and Voice recognition and even a device that has been paired to the Home View and recently unlocked. No guidance has been given yet on what is meant by a recently unlocked device or what time period that would refer to in conjunction with the Facial/Voice Recognition.
Along with the Reminders app for Shopping Lists, personal information in all these devices using Siri AI includes Messages, Contacts, Notes, and the Calendar app, preventing access from others without some form of authentication. The iPhone is a single user device, compared to the others, and does not have Voice Recognition so the authentication is done by unlocking the device. It is plausible that they could have a time limit after unlocking for access to that personal information, although that means others would be able to access it too with Siri.
If my wife and I both have our iPhones sitting on a counter, whose shopping list should it be added to, there is no voice recognition capability? Should I be able to add an inappropriate reminder or item in a Shopping list to someone else's phone simply by using Siri on their locked device?
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